How To Stay Motivated

New Year. New start. Thousands of resolutions being made. But how many of them last more than a week? Not that many at all. Making plans and working towards our goals is an art and sticking to a resolution till the end is a success in itself. If you happen to often make new, ambitious plans to then abandon them after a week, having quickly run out of motivation – this post is for you.

Yesterday, I posted a few ideas for making 2019 your year. Today, I’m coming with a list of simple rules that will help you stick to your resolutions.

Small, sustainable goals

Most of us love huge, spectacular resolutions. ‘I will lose 20 pounds by next Wednesday!’. ‘I will learn Chinese in a month!’. ‘I will switch from eating junk food 24/7 to only cooking fresh, healthy meals in a day!’. ‘I will quit smoking altogether, going from 2 packs a day to zero – right now!’.

The first two of the above certainly are unrealistic. The latter pair – could be done, depending on your determination. For the majority of people, however, drastic changes generally don’t work. We stick to our new plans for a while – let’s say, we cook our meals from scratch and only eat healthy foods for a week. And then, a moment of weakness comes and we binge-eat a box of cookies, two cheeseburgers, half a pizza and a slice of cake, accompanied by a few cans of coke. The whole progress is ruined and we give up for good.

When a resolution involves a change of our everyday habits, the best way to tackle it is to introduce those changes gradually, step by step. That way you’ll slowly but surely get used to the new routine and you’ll be less likely to return to your old ways.

Another benefit of making small goals is that you’ll be able to frequently celebrate small victories – let’s say, once a week – instead of hoping for that one, huge victory at the end of your planned road, which you may never manage to reach. Additionally, every little moment of satisfaction and content with your achievements is a great motivation boost and fuels the motivation to continue. So instead of making a long-term plan, split it up into smaller chunks and celebrate after each of them.

Start today

This is probably one of the most common pitfalls – we make a resolution and schedule it at some point in the future. ‘Tomorrow’, ‘next Monday’, ‘next month’. The day comes and we’re still not quite ready and postpone the plan by another day, week, month. If you’re sure your goal is something you’re ready to commit to – why not start today? And if you’re not sure… figure out what it is that you’d like to achieve before making unrealistic plans for the future, plans you don’t mean to stick to.

Just start

Sometimes the most difficult part of an activity is starting. We’re lazy, we’re comfortable, we don’t feel like moving away from the sofa. Making that first step can be incredibly hard, but once you’re past that step – it will be much easier! If your goal is to work out – take your workout clothes out of the wardrobe and put them on. Chances are, you’ll actually work out instead of returning to the sofa. If your goal is to do a massive wardrobe or even room cleanup? Take the first batch of stuff out of the shelves. You probably won’t feel comfortable with a pile of clothes occupying the middle of your room and you’ll eventually sort them out. You feel like an artistic anti-talent but would like to learn to draw? Prepare a piece of paper and a pencil and look up a tutorial on YouTube. You’d like to learn new vocabulary in a foreign language? Download an app on your phone (there are plenty of apps for learning languages!), open it and explore – you’ll probably end up completing a lesson or two. You’d like to quit smoking? Collect all of the cigarettes laying around your house and put them in the bin.

Yes, sometimes the start is something we have to force ourselves to. But the good news is – once you’re past that stage, it gets a lot easier and there’s a good chance you’ll actually continue.

Reward yourself

In order to stay motivated, it’s important to pat yourself on the back when you make progress and complete some smaller part of the big plan. After splitting your resolutions into smaller chunks, use those stages to establish when you deserve a reward. That way, you’ll have some smaller goals to work for and look forward to. And your motivation will be refreshed every once in a while.

Remind yourself about the goal

Whenever we make resolutions, there’s a solid reason behind them. We want to feel better or healthier, we want to obtain new skills, we want to broaden our mind and horizons. We may aim for finding a better job, or we might simply want to do something for our own satisfaction. Whatever it is for you – don’t forget to systematically remind yourself of that final goal. The road to it may be long, it may require strenuous, dull, repetitive, often frustrating tasks filled with trials and errors. We don’t do such things for nothing – we do them with a defined goal in mind. Whenever you feel like your efforts are pointless and they cost you too much time and energy – think about the ultimate goal and the ways it will benefit you.

Success rarely comes overnight. It’s often the last part of a lengthy process. It’s easy to give up halfway through. It’s those who push through that stage and don’t surrender who then succeed and celebrate.

Make use of sudden tides of motivation

I often notice that my motivation comes and goes in tides. There are times when I can hardly leave the bed, and there are times when I’d like to – all at once – go through 100 pages of English dictionary in order to learn new vocabulary, write blog posts for a whole month in advance, do a solid workout and read a few books that will expand my knowledge and skills and be beneficial to my career. Naturally, we can’t do everything at once. But the important thing is to use the wave of motivation when it comes and do something. Don’t wait it out while sitting on the sofa – make good use of it instead, so it doesn’t go to waste!

Allow yourself occasional failures

It’s easy to write about motivation and success, but it’s important to remember that we all share the same human nature. It’s natural to feel tired. It’s okay to feel out of energy. Sometimes unexpected happens and we’re forced to change our plans. We all encounter such upheavals. What really matters is how we react to them. Don’t let those temporary hiccups discourage you. Simply accept them, move on and continue working towards your goals!

And above all, remember – there’s no such thing as failure, as long as you try and do your best. The only failure is giving up before you even start!

Do you have any other tips and tricks for staying motivated to work on long-term goals? Share them, so we can all benefit from them!

And if eating healthily is on your list of New Year’s resolutions, check out this post:

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15 thoughts on “How To Stay Motivated

  1. I also think an important tip is to not over-do it. Often the new year can spur on renewed enthusiasm, which is great, and we should certainly sail with this wind, but be cautious of limited energy; the year is a marathon not a race.

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  2. Actually setting a goal is not a big thing but the point is to stick with it. Apart of setting a big goal it’s a good deal to set small goals because to reach at the top of the ladder it is important to climb each step one by one. All points are upto the mark and if we can add one more thing about fitness then it’ll be remarkable.

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    1. Definitely! I remember what I did while (trying) to study for exams back in my uni times – a little reward after every topic read. I might have overdone on the rewards but it certainly kept me going, I passed most of the exams in first try! ^^

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  3. I fully agree on the busting out a “first step” such as the bringing a chunk of clothes out of a closet in order to do an overhaul of it. When I do my laundry and don’t feel like it, I dump all of it all over my bed so I have to get it done since the pile bothers me haha.

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    1. I always do it when I decide it’s time to sort out my wardrobe! Clothes out onto the bed… too bad if I lose all strength and energy halfway through and I have to share my bed with a pile of clothes. Or move them between the bed and the floor, making space wherever I need it until I finally regain the motivation to finish the job. ^^’ . But, what matters is that even though it sometimes takes a while, the job gets done after all, all thanks to making that first step!

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